Monday, 19 January 2009

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    So about a week ago on Saturday actually...It was late my friend and I just left a bar.  It was snowing like crazy out.  And in my tipsy state I texted the boy.  Ha well it didnt go so well...im just gonna write the convo below.

    Me:  I totally just fell in the snow! lol

    Boy: And I totally just woke up from a dumb text.

    Me(trying to make light of the situation): Your sleeping?... lame!

    Boy: I was sleeping, now im trying to go back to sleep.

    Me: Wow....Okay

    Boy: I have work tomorrow.

    Me: Sorry to disturb you

    Well i have had about a week to reflect on this.  Of course my friends kinda think he is an ass...expecially the one who was over when it happened.  I guess I can understand getting mad, but i would of just rolled over and went back to sleep.  Then I started to think...this is a bad sign, he is verbally abusive.

    So I didnt text him, till last night.  I dont know why I just can't let it go...I have done it millions of times before, the whatever he is being an ass and I moved on to another guy or got busy doing something else.  Anyway here are the texts from last night...

    Me: Is it safe to text you? lol...

    Boy: Yes.

    Me: Haha..okay just checking.  You working tomorrow in the day time?  Thought maybe we chould have some friendly fun....i dont have work..havent't for days lol

    (i know friendly fun sounds totally weird lol but we are kinda weird, and i wanted the phrase friends to be in there)

    Boy: I have to work during the day tomorrow.

    Me: Alright...Maybe another time then.  I know something freaked you out but i would like to stay friends with you cuz your hilarious.

    five min later....

    Me: Sorry I didnt know how else to word that.  I guess if your not cool with that just let me know...

    (I just wanted to be honest...and i think i gave him an easy out here...)

    Boy: I'm working. Everything is fine I've had a bad week.

    Me: That sucks, sorry.  Hope you have a better week.

    Hm, so I dunno i guess everything is fine? lol....If he was having a bad week maybe that is why he got so cranky...i dont want to make excuses for him but i guess it happens...at any rate i really do want to be friends.  But i doubt ill hear from him first.  haha.  Oh well just gonna give it some more time and maybe send him an invite next time my friends and i go drinking or something...though he will probbly be working...who knows...

Comments (1)

  • damnselXinXdistress

    okay.... so can we say ASSHOLE.. he was so rude! even if he did have a bad week. but giving him benefit of the doubt maybe that really was all it was. if he ever acted like that again.. i would definately say its about time to find a new asshole.. lol. since most men are!

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